Just a few years ago, I was on a flight to New York after saying goodbye to my home and everything I had ever known. Now, I am writing this piece from what has, over the years, become my new home.

The anticipation of starting fresh in a new country, the excitement of independence, and the anxiety of the unknown all weighed heavily on me when I decided to come to NYU for college. However, looking back, this journey has been nothing short of transformative!

Independence and Making My Own Decisions

One of the biggest lessons I learned early on was the importance of independence. Moving alone meant learning how to manage everything on my own, from daily logistics to long-term decision-making.

Navigating New York City was challenging at first because I had to get used to the fast-paced lifestyle. I had to figure out public transportation, manage my own finances, and make travel decisions without the safety net of my family. But the experience taught me to become more independent, and that is an indispensable skill. Navigating traveling alone, especially during COVID, taught me the value of resilience and adaptability.

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Traveling alone has now become one of my favorite things ever!
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Exploring the city was very helpful when I first moved here. This is my favorite spot by the piers.

Being Homesick and Finding My Community

Homesickness was something I was not prepared for, and it hit me a lot harder than expected. The initial excitement of being away from home quickly gave way to moments of longing for familiar comforts. I missed family dinners, local food, and the presence of loved ones.

What helped me overcome this was finding my community here. On campus, being part of the Admissions Ambassador program and connecting with my roommates helped ease the transition. I was able to find my home away from home and some of my best friends. Furthermore, cultural organizations like the Hindu Student Union provided a sense of belonging and cultural familiarity that I deeply appreciated. My family, though far away, remained a strong source of emotional support. They constantly reminded me that despite the distance, I was never truly alone.

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I met my friends Holly and Oriana through the Admissions Ambassador program, and we’ve become best friends.
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These are a few of my best friends who I met through work and mutual acquaintances.

Professional Development and Life After NYU

In addition to the personal development, moving to New York City for college has been amazing for my professional development. The academic environment at NYU and being in New York City has opened a lot of doors in terms of my career. Internships and on-campus roles, like working with the Admission Ambassadors and in housing, gave me hands-on experience that prepared me for the real world.

What’s more, I’ve learned to network, which has been a very useful skill. During my first year, I was able to connect with my computer science professor who worked on the Apollo 13 mission. As a result, I have made great connections with other professionals in the industry. Finally, other campus resources, like the Office of Global Services and Handshake, have been instrumental in helping me navigate job opportunities and post-graduation plans.

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Visiting the temple always helps my homesickness and gives me a semblance of home.

My Next Adventure

Moving halfway across the world from home at a young age was a formative experience, one that tested my resilience and shaped my identity. It was not always easy, but every challenge I faced contributed to my growth. I’ve learned how to be independent, build meaningful connections, and take charge of my future. Looking back, I wouldn’t trade this experience for anything—it has made me who I am today, and I’m excited for what lies ahead.

I am currently a senior in the Class of 2025 at the Tandon School of Engineering studying Business and Technology Management concentrating in Strategy, and I also have a minor in Bioethics. I am originally from India but I grew up in Dubai, so I’ve kind of been all over the place. When I’m not working for Admissions Ambassadors or studying you can find me at the closest boba shop or bookstore. And I spend the rest of my free time being an avid Taylor Swift fan.